I Was Working Hard on My Side Hustle- But I Was Working on the Wrong Things

A few years ago, I remember getting to a point where my side hustle was finally set up.

I had spent countless hours learning WordPress, building my blog, setting up my email list, creating an opt-in page, writing automated emails, and getting products in place that I could actually sell.

However, there was one big problem.

Hardly anyone was visiting my website. No one was joining my email list. And if people were seeing my product offers, they certainly weren’t buying anything.

It was one of the most frustrating realizations I’ve had while building my side hustle, especially after working really hard.

What I realized is that working hard is not enough. It’s not the definitive answer to my problems.

I had to work hard on the thing that mattered most at that particular stage. It was a painful realization, but one that became a pivotal turning point in my journey of growing a side hustle business selling digital product. And it’s a great life lesson that applies to many things.

If you want to work smarter on your side hustle, then this post is for you. Let’s dive in.

The Journey Looked Something Like This

When I think about that period now, I can almost map out exactly how it felt:

Excitement → Hard Work → Accomplishment → Silence → Confusion → Frustration → Doubt → Realization → Refocus → Progress

The beginning was exciting. I was learning new skills and building things I’d never built before.

Every improvement to the website felt productive. Learning how to create an opt-in page felt productive. Setting up automated emails felt productive.

And all of those things were productive. The problem was that I became so consumed with building everything that I wasn’t spending enough time building the audience that would eventually use it.

I Thought I Was Getting the Business Ready

When I first started, I knew traffic was important.

I understood that people somehow needed to find me before they could join my email list or buy something.

But there were so many other things to work on. And frankly, those things were fun.

I could spend an evening improving my website and immediately see the result. I could rewrite an email and know it was better than the version I had before. I could work on a landing page and feel like I had accomplished something.

It’s like building a house. You can lay bricks all day and see the progress.

Traffic was different. Building an audience was slower. You could spend hours creating content and get almost no response.

Getting people to see your business assets, like your website and products, is more ambiguous. You put the time and effort into it, and the results sometimes don’t show up right away. It feels like invisible progress; it lacks the definition or clarity you get from working with a more tangible element like bricklaying.

And I like to see results right away. So, it was very easy for me to spend too much time on the parts of the business where I could immediately see my work taking shape.

Eventually, though, everything was ready. And that’s when the silence became impossible to ignore.

I Had Built a Business With Almost Nobody Walking Through the Door

Imagine opening a store.

You spend weeks getting everything ready. You organize the products, set up the displays, make the store look great and prepare everything so that when customers arrive, you’re ready for them.

Then you open the doors. And nobody walks in. That’s essentially what I had done online.

I had built the infrastructure. But infrastructure by itself doesn’t create an audience.

That was a tough realization because of how much time I’d already invested. I remember thinking about all those hours and wondering whether I had gotten this completely wrong. The doubt started to set in.

Was I wasting my time?

Was this ever going to work?

And now that everything was built, how was I supposed to get enough people to actually see it?

At times, traffic generation seemed almost impossible. I seriously thought about quitting.

How to Work Smarter on Your Side Hustle

I’ve always been willing to work hard.

That wasn’t something I needed to learn from building a side hustle. What I needed to learn was how to decide where that hard work belonged right now.

That’s a much harder question. “Work smarter, not harder” is one of those phrases we’ve probably all heard countless times.

My experience with my side hustle finally made me understand what it actually meant.

Working smart didn’t mean finding a shortcut. It didn’t mean doing less work. For me, it meant identifying the biggest constraint in the business and putting more of my effort there.

At that point, my biggest constraint was obvious.

I needed people.

The Framework That Helped Me See What I Was Missing

One of the frameworks I learned through my training and mentorship is called the Four Core Areas of Making Money.

The four areas are:

  1. Traffic Generation – getting the attention of the right people.
  2. Capture – giving those people a reason to join your email list.
  3. Follow-Up – continuing the relationship through email and content.
  4. Offers – presenting products or services that can help them.

I had spent a lot of time preparing the later parts of that process.

I had an opt-in system, email structure, and digital products to offer.

But none of those things could do very much without enough people entering the process in the first place.

That’s why traffic generation is first. And once I really understood that, the way I spent my time started changing.

I Started Asking a Different Question

Instead of spending another evening wondering how I could make my website a little better, I started thinking:

How do I get the first hundred people to actually see it?

That question led me much deeper into traffic generation.

At first, I used Quora and started creating content there. That actually worked. People began finding my content, some joined my email list, and it ultimately helped me make my first online sale.

When my Quora account was later shut down, I had to start rebuilding my traffic source again.

This time, I chose TikTok. And TikTok brought another learning curve.

I couldn’t simply post something every day and assume an audience would appear. I had to learn what people responded to, test different ways of communicating my experiences, study the results, make changes, and keep doing it.

It was slower and more methodical than I originally imagined building an online side hustle would be. It took months to get a handle on it, which is a little mind-blowing, but it was an important process I had to go through.

But I was finally spending much more of my time on the part of the business that needed me most.

What Working Smarter Means to Me Now

I still work on my website.

I still improve my emails.

I still think about products and offers.

Those things matter. The difference is that I no longer assume every worthwhile task deserves the same amount of attention at the same time.

If hardly anybody is visiting my website, spending another ten hours making minor improvements to it probably isn’t my biggest opportunity. If people are visiting but aren’t joining my email list, then perhaps traffic isn’t the immediate problem anymore. Maybe the opt-in offer needs attention.

And if people are joining the list but never buying anything, that tells me to look somewhere else again. That’s how I’ve started thinking about working smarter.

Find the part that’s holding everything else back and work there. Then reassess.

I Would Do One Thing Differently If I Were Starting Again

I wouldn’t wait until everything was finished before seriously working on traffic.

I’d still build the website and email system because I want to own those assets and have somewhere useful to send people. But I’d build the audience alongside them.

If I were starting from zero today, I’d want people beginning to discover my content while I was putting the rest of the pieces in place.

The website doesn’t need to be perfect before the first person visits it. The email sequence doesn’t need months of refinement before the first person subscribes.

Some of those improvements are actually easier to make once real people begin interacting with what you’ve built. That balance is something I didn’t understand at the beginning. I understand it much better now because I experienced what happens when you get it wrong.

If You’re Working Hard but Feel Like You’re Getting Nowhere

This is probably the biggest thing I’d want someone else building a side hustle to take from my experience:

Don’t immediately assume that a lack of results means you aren’t working hard enough.

Ask yourself where your work is going. What is actually preventing the business from moving forward right now?

For me, the answer was traffic. For someone else, it could be something completely different.

But figuring out the answer can change what you do tomorrow morning. And sometimes that’s far more valuable than simply deciding to work another two hours.

The Free Training That Helped Me Understand the Process

If you’re trying to build an online side hustle and aren’t sure what to focus on first, there’s a free, beginner-friendly training that explains the Four Core Areas of Making Money, which helped me understand this process.

The training was created by my mentor and friend, Dean Holland, who has spent more than two decades building an online business.

It’s one of the frameworks that helped me stop viewing an online business as dozens of disconnected tasks and start seeing how the different parts actually work together and in what order.

Access the Free Training

It’s designed for beginners, including people who don’t have an audience, products of their own, or much experience building an online business.

For me, understanding the entire process was helpful.

Learning where to put my attention right now was what started making the difference.

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